Definition: Marital fatigue is a state of physical, emotional, and mental exhaustion, weariness, and burnout that arises as a result of estrangement and detachment between spouses during the marriage.
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\nIs "severe incompatibility" a new concept?
\nIn cases of severe marital discord, conflicts and arguments between spouses are intense.,
\nIn such marriages, the dominant emotion is anger. In discord, both spouses...
\nThey have attitudes of trying to prove their own righteousness to the other side, and
\nTherefore, we observe the presence of intense energy. However, marriage...
\nIt is the feeling of silence and emptiness that prevails in the house in his weariness. Energy
\nExhausted, helplessness and, more importantly, hopelessness have set in, and activities...
\nIt has decreased.<\/p>\n
What causes spouses to become estranged from each other?
\nOne of the main factors that turns spouses into two hoteliers living in the same house is their shared interests.
\nThere is a gradual decrease in shared goals, common values, and shared activities.
\nThe couple is unable to act with a team spirit and prioritizes individual goals instead of shared objectives.
\nGoals and objectives come to the forefront. Titled "You, Me, and Everything Between Us"
\nAs I stated in my book, I believe marriage is about "being able to be 'we' while protecting the 'I'".
\nIn marital fatigue, spouses carefully protect their "I"s while neglecting to be "we".
\nThey are unable to act with a team or group spirit.
\nTherefore, both spouses are directed towards their own goals and the roles they have chosen.,
\ndifferent lifestyles, different working hours, and even different interests.
\nand developing different friendships and gradually becoming closer to each other
\nThey are becoming alienated. Even worse, they are ignoring the current problem for a long time.
\nignoring, seeking help in the direction of problem-solving
\nThey don't get involved and reduce communication between them, and they don't complain much, however...
\nThey paint a picture that doesn't look happy at all.<\/p>\n
What is it that these couples fundamentally lack compared to others?
\nWhat's fundamentally missing is emotional investment. Treating the relationship like a shared bank account...
\nThink about it. Every bank account only grows as investments increase. This bank...
\nThink of it as an "emotional bank account." Both partners should have this...
\nThey don't invest anything in the account, and they rarely say positive things to each other.,
\nAppreciation and praise are almost never expressed, there are no surprises at all.,
\nExpressions of affection are lacking. In other words, there's no emotional investment whatsoever.<\/p>\n
A good relationship involves a balance between roots and wings. Roots provide security,
\nWhile the body represents commitment, compassion, and tenderness, the wings represent individual growth.,
\nIt symbolizes individual fulfillment and freedom. Sometimes partners move at different speeds.
\nThey are evolving, not growing together, and therefore neglecting their roots.
\nThey are only drawn to their wings. Marriage often leads to a routine life.
\nTherefore, I think the art of marriage is also the art of being happy within routine.
\nTo achieve this, you need to be able to do even your routine in different ways and make it fun.
\nIt might be possible to bring it.<\/p>\n
Lastly, I think marital fatigue is always a sign that a relationship is ending.
\nThat doesn't mean anything. Perhaps spouses recognizing this fatigue will improve their marriage.
\nIt's a given opportunity. But if we realize what's not going right, we'll address it.
\nWe can change it.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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